26 September 2009

It is a gender thing?

I am getting to the point where I think some of the societal against woman really need to be altered or changed. People need to wrap their minds around a more liberal approach to life. In our society woman are constantly mistreated, objectified, or exploited. A man and a woman could do the same extact things and a woman will be called a hoe and so many other demeaning and derogatory names however, a dude will be given a high five or glorified for what he does.

I think a lot of females have gotten to the point where they believe that if males can do it then females can do it as well. Why must females always be in the receiving end of everything?

23 September 2009


At first I was not necessarily loving my college experience. It seemed like I was just here going through the motions of college. I mean I was involved in my class and I had a few random extra-curricular activities, however I was not really committed to any of them. Maybe because I was working as well at the time. I was constantly told to join more things and to become more involved, that is the only way to enjoy college. And I must say this is factual.

Although the semester has just begun, I am loving college more this semester than I did my whole freshmen year. This year I took a nice amount of credits and picked my professors very wisely, and I love them all. They all assign a good amount of work, but it is not overwhelming. Additionally, I really got involved in my school. I was apart of the on-campus newspaper last year as a writer, but this year I decided to extend myself and take on the task of one of the section editors. I love to write and so far this has been a wonderful experience. I also decided that instead of being one of the people on-campus and did nothing to fix the problems that I would be proactive. I joined the SGA as a sophomore class senator. This position takes up a good amount of my time, but I love it. It makes me feel good that I am making a positive impact in my school. Lastly, I am participating in a lot of community service programs because you can't show or continue to be blessed if you do not give back to others.

I urge everyone to get involved in the campus or community somewhere. You may not feel like doing something all the time, but you will feel really good then you give back. I always do. It is a wonderful feeling =)


I know I haven't blogged for a few days... I haven't been feeling that good, like emotionally and physically drained. I am definately feeling better after giving all my issues to the one who lives MOST HIGH. So I will be back to my almost daily post =)

09 September 2009

Cuz a ROSE....

Okay so I really like Kanye West's girlfriend Amber Rose. I think they make a really cute couple. But I blame her for initiating this new "fade phase". Amber Rose sports a really cute blond fresh cut and it looks really good on her. But this cut is not for everyone I am sorry. Amber Rose has a sick body and because of this she can get away with a very unique cut and people will still want her. Some of the girls I have seen with this cut are not bigger than a toothpick, and I am sorry but this cut is not for you mama.

This cut is not for you if:

1. You have naturally really really coarse hair so when it is getting close to the time that you need a hair cut your hair starts getting beady.

2. If you can not get away with a flawless natural look.

3. If you do not have a body.

4. If you can not dress. You need style to pull off such an edgy look.


06 September 2009

Lost in Translation....

Have you ever felt lost? Like you do not know where to begin or end. You feel confused like you can't get yourself together? You feel like you don't really know who you are but you know who you would like to be?

I think so many people, especially late teens feel this feeling and somehow do not know how to describe it. You feel embarrassed to admit it. To say that you have gone so far that you know longer know where you are. Sometimes I feel like you have to admit these things before you can expect any change.

I try and live my life without regrets although that is almost impossible because what may originally seem like a good idea can easily shift into a not so good idea. However, the soon we admit that we are lost the soon we may be found. You no longer have to act as if you have everything together. It is okay not to know. It is okay to be confused. That's life... Deal with it.

03 September 2009

You First Please....

If you want to be a good person and be with someone it seems plausible to me that you must first deal with any internal issues you have within yourself. You can not give someone your all if you can not first give yourself your all. Most people know and understand their flaws even if they do not always wish to admit them. You can only fake for so long, things are bound to reveal themselves. Awareness is of utmost importance because once you are aware of your issues you can make moves and attempt to fix or modify it. Even the best of us have flaws but it is all in how you handle these flaws that really matter.

01 September 2009

It's Bigger Than You

So I was sitting in my International Relations class this morning and we were discussing some of the major topics going on in the world today. It really made me realize how the world is so much bigger than just me, or just my college, or my state, or my nation. A lot of people especially at the highschool or college level get caught up in a lot of uneccessary drama because they are so consumed and obessed with themselves (also because they have too much time on their hands).

I have come to realize that there are so many other things going to in the world that need concern and precedence. For example, almost ten years after the War on Terror began young men and still losing their lives everyday for a useless cause, or how about the thousands of people being laid off in the U.S. because of the recession, or even the people in third world countries starving everyday because of famine. We never take the time to step out of our busy drama filled lives and step and really examine what is going on in the world around us. It is a sad truth especially with Americans because wars are rarely ever fought on our soil and we are known as a wasteful and gready society. But we can do better....